I'm with you on this one Jeremy. I love coffee. If it's strong. And if it's sweet. I just don't like it just plain. And I don't like it weak. When I first went to WI, way back in '97, I spent a lot of time with a lady in her '70's who cracked me up on a regular basis. And never ceased to amaze me. For one thing- when we had to get somewhere and were running late... she drove. Western WI has a lot of hills, valleys (coulees) and curvaceous roads. I never had spent a lot of time driving on roads like that. Well- ok- there was the time that Dad took me to test drive a car some guy had advertised. We're peddling down the road and I'm driving, Dad's in the back seat, Owner's beside me. A curve and I suddenly realize we're heading into that thing a bit fast. And.... I closed my eyes. I did. Truly. Momentary panic. heh.
Anyway- what's that got to do with coffee? Oh yeah- Lillian. Well she drove fast (but only drove when we were in a hurry. That's when I closed my eyes). And she had a coffee joke repertoire. That included.
Standing by the window holding her coffee gazing up at the sky: Looks like rain.... Smells like coffee.
And: Oh careful there- get the coffee away from the edge of the table... it might fall off, it's so weak.
(canned laughter)
I liked hearing her repeat those.
When I was home 6 years ago I had a little time with L. But there were no more coffee stories, no more witticisms of any kind. Oh she could chuckle and rub her hands together at the same time just like always and look delighted. But there was nothing there. Lights on but no one home. It made me ache inside. And this time? There won't be any time with her. At all. Two months ago she was mercifully released from life. I'll miss seeing her in WI this fall but I'm thankful at the same time. Her smile was still there and a tidy 'house' but it was empty.
My Grandma J was the same way. The last time I saw her, she was 'home' if Grandpa was there; if he wasn't, she said over and over- I think it's time we were getting home. Shouldn't we be going home? 'Home' was Grandpa. It was sweet. But sad, too. She, too, has been released from that shell. Thankfully.
I recently saw another Dear Old Friend- my friend's father- with whom there will be no more chats, no more shared experiences, no more shared precious things that make the heart glad. His smile is beautiful and heart warming and ready. His spirit is gentle. And I'm so thankful for the very special time 11 years ago at Shoals. I'd not seen him for a few years and in that time he'd made a decision that lit him up from the inside out. I'd heard about it but couldn't really picture it. And then we ran into each other at Shoals. Every time he saw me he wanted to visit. Every time. He was my friend's father, my very good friend's father-in-law. And because of that he knew about me. And he wanted to share and visit. I'm thankful now for that very precious memory. Seeing him recently it all came back to me and I was glad beyond words that I had that special memory.
All that from a coffee comic.




























































